'[I'm] completely canceling my stepdaughter's birthday bash': Woman shuts down 17-year-old stepdaughter's birthday party after finding out the teen knew about affair

This woman admits that she and her stepdaughter "never acted like mother-daughter," yet everyone around her is still trying to guilt her into paying tons of money for a birthday party. 

Dating someone with kids is notoriously complex. How long should you date before you are introduced to their child? How involved should you be in their life? Should they call you mom or dad? There are a hundred different answers to these questions, and it's totally different with every child. You don't want to enter a kid's life too soon or take up too much space in their lives. But it can also be incredibly rewarding to have a kid look up to you and value you. This woman was dating a man with an older teenager, and she thought their relationship was going pretty well. 

As u/Crafty-Row470 explained in her story, she had to break up with the dude after she found out he was cheating on her. He was very secretive about it, and when she found out, this woman was totally devastated. She wants to cancel her ex-stepdaughter's birthday party, but she actually has a pretty good reason for wanting to do so, as you can read all about below. Commenters urged her to cut off all contact with this family and never look back! 

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